kerry i never knew you were mental she'll be very very lucky if she can stack boxes in a supermarket he works with his lot i went um to the cafeteria and i got a coffee and i was stopped by a woman and she said can i pray for you and i said well i've already got my caramel latte so i'm okay thanks my teacher said to me oh you can't be an actor if you can't read the waiter came along handed my mother the menu and asked her did she want to read it to me or should he read it to me i've got two degrees i'm very capable of reading a menu she said let's be honest here carrie you're not dyslexic you just went to a large state comprehensive school and had very bad education disability is not the same as inability i've represented my country at an international level my mind thinks outside of the box i've got ba honours in humanities industrial engineering social psychology i then pursued my master's then i did post-doc in london oftentimes other people put the disability ahead of the person i would go into an interview and need to seriously outperform the people that i was up against difference it's just a difference we are all human basically you treat disabled people the way you would treat anybody else i think of myself as a regular person who has dreams who has ambitions who happens to have a disability what do i call a disabled person how do i refer to them you you call them by their name ideally you know you